Effects of dating parents after divorce on children
You can not let your children suffer once again if it appears that this is the wrong person. Make your conclusions carefully before you decide to start dating someone with children or having children by yourself. That’s why be very cautious starting new dating with children. Expressing romantic feelings for someone other than the other parent.
You can not let your children experience a loss all over again. There is a proven fact, children of divorce are the ones who suffer from separation most of all. Caring about your is not only crucial for them but for you as well.
They need much more attention now, like never before. From any point of view, practical, religious, psychological, caring for somebody who needs care more than you, heals you much faster and effectively.
They look at you; they do not want to feel emptiness, and you do not want that either. They will stay father or mother for your kid forever.
All the emotions that adults experience after divorce plus their kid’s emotions multiplied several times. Actually it is blessing for you to have someone to care for and love in this particular moment of your life.
Your children after separation are in a more complicated situation than you are. There are typical conditions of children in divorced families: • They may secretly be hoping that “mommy and daddy” will get back together again, and will act out ways to accomplish this, i.e. • They may be jealous and possessive of the single parent’s love, not wanting to share mom and/or dad with anyone else. It helps a lot not to concentrate on your own emotions and it heals like nothing else.
If you have already decided they are the right person, do not force your children to meet or accept them.
Give them time to get to know the new person in your life.